40 Points Handbook for Life

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least:
40. Enjoy your day as much as you can =)

Shakespeare's

Farewell

DISCLAIMER: This is an emo post, no colorful words, just dim, simple and cries from the heart. If you find it not suitable for you to read, pls do leave now, or else you'll be charged with a list of crimes that you've not even done any of it. Please take note. Thank you. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

This month,
the month of May,
is such a farewell month for me.
Imagine that you have to say the same phrase for 4 times a month,
how creepy could that be.
"Goodbye, see you again, take care ya. All the Best!"
Say it once, n u see sum1 leaves, say it again, another one leaves.....
one word:
SAD!

Aargh.....the 1st one that left was him,
but him, with a lil' kindness, came back 2 visit me 3 days later.
=P
And of cos we spent time together,
together, as in,
all of us!
haha!!
we had fun though.
Great memories.
Loving it.
Then, he's back again for his long holiday,
2 and a half months.
How nice!
And we shall meet only by then....counting on days frm now.

Who's nexT?

*********************

My very adorable great roommate for 2 and a half years.
Completed all 4 semesters and heading to OBU.
gr8 huh?
Yes, indeed.
but it's not so gr8 at the same time.
cos....wut we have n had is now being classified as memories.
not just memories.
but GREAT MEMORIES!
that's pretty sad.

"Happens too fast, but lasts forever."

That's us.

Remember my previous post that I mentioned before about my gang,
yeah, it's being parted by now.
5 of us,
being stationed at where we're supposed to.
Myself, being the only survivor now,
still staying in this hostel,
living my life.

Time seriously flies.
The times that we just met and were trying to get along with each other,
the times that we shared our tears, joy, and fear,
the times that we went wild together,
the times that we had together,
it's all stuck in my head, until today,
n it keeps playing in my mind,
it makes me feel like as if they were happened only days ago.
so fresh.
But the fact that, it's already been 2 and a half years.
Eventho Rou had only 1 and a haf yr +++ with us;
but the memories we shared together,
has a significant carve in all our hearts.
Eer + Fenk;
it's a full of 2 and a half yrs.
count them in hours or minutes,
u'll see hw much we've gone thru.

The third person that left was....
Eer!
packed up...moved out...
completed her diploma in science.
movin on for her degree in IMU this July.
Far form here,
but at least we still get to meet up from time to time.

Both of them have always been the parents for all intense and purposes in the gang.
Gr8 peeps they're!

and here comes the fourth.
My superb grandparents and uncle that were being air flown all the way back frm Vancouver, Ca 3 weeks ago,
it's now time for them to get back to whr they came from.
SAD!!
Grandparents, whom I've not met for 2 yrs,
Uncle, I can only recall the last time we met was when I was preparing for my UPSR!
and that was 8 yrs ago!
Freakin long rite.
He made no changes,
but us,
a surprise for him.
all grown-ups.
no more kiddies huggin milk bottles n run after him.
the 3 weeks they spent here was reli a gr8 time for them.
they ate and drank all da m'sian F + B.
Tried everythin;
inside out.
from food to head to toe.
That's us.
My Family.

After all these farewells,
myself,
left with an incomplete heart.
da other half of it has already broken down,
and it takes time to heal.
The next mode for me to be switched to;
Busy mode!
Freaky asses coming by the way.
arrgh....
But I think it cud help me along the way tho.

And these farewells made my month of May,year 2009.

The next thing for me to do now is,
count on days n set a date for the whole reunion,
technically;
but,
practically,
I should be gone for a bathe now!
haha!!
Adioss....


Signin off, Carrie the KPQueen =)

Greetings from my Loveland!

Heyo!
Greetings from my Loveland!
Yes, I'm back at home for the 6th day (30/04/2009);
feeling superb! =)
But I'm here to post of my day on the 26/04/2009.
Hope u dun mind.
Blehhhh....=P
******

hmmmm.....
I was moving around for the past few days n dats why I'm here late.
Anyway, I'm kind of out of words today.
No, not cos of my mood,
but just that I'm a lil lazy,
but i promise this will not be repeated in my next post, okay?

A pic wud mean a thousand wrds,
am i right?
Yea, i have pics to share tho.
Just sum food n ppl tht I've miss for the past 2 mnths.

So, here we go!
Do Enjoy 'em!
=)
Dinner @ Siamese Secret blablabla.

*Donno its long name. haha!!*

yummy tummy Fish Fingers
Finger-licking goodie good hawaiian pizza! tttwoo thumbss upp!! =)
Mum's Aglio-Olio, it looks so pale kan, but it tastes superb
My one n only sibling *FYI : She's 6 yrs elder than me.
No, no, they aren't siblings but mum n daughter!

Urs Truly, with my favourita seafood pasta...yummmy! A must-eat for me! weeee.....=)

After dinner, went to visit my grandma n the apple of my eye.
Goshhh, heard tht he's grown so much more in just 2 mnths time.
when I see him for myself, haha, seriously, he did put on so so so much more weight!
Massive weight grown boi!
Seriously, he can reli make ur day.
He can reli make u laf + smile like a mad woman with all his tiny little actions n words.
better than a boyfren u hav for now.

Cute + Lovely + nauhgty = Adriel.
=P
ooh yea, carrying him in ur arms or chasin afta him is serisouly a gr8 way of losing weights.
make u sweat of 50ml.
cos he's just too GREAT to handle!

******

thr u go!
See him for urself!
My lovely nephew, Adriel.
-One fat boy-








yeah, that's just so him.
these pics are all requested and approved by him personally.
Freaking funny man when he asked my sis to take pics of him!
haahaha.....smart boi! Credits to him! muahks!
ohhh yeah, fyi, he's oni 2 yrs and 2 mnths old only.
but he so doesnt look like one rite?
yeah, many thinks that he's od 4 o 5 yrs old.
cos he's just way too faT!

Alrite, I shall end my post now.
stay tuned for the next....
c ya....
muahks!

Signing off,
Carrie the KPQueen =)

Counting on days

Hey thr!
How have u been?
Wondering of who I'm asking?
well, the ans is just right in front of u when u look into a mirror!
Yeah....it's U!!

*************

It's been sumtime afta my last post.
No, I was not being lazy o stuck with my very own personality of being
hangat2 tahi ayam,
but was taking a short break;
allowing myself 2 switch into
the low-batt mode, the unwilling to study mode,
the hibernating mode, the emo-mo mode,
the depression mode, the nitemares mode.
No, not a gud habit.
But wut to do, it's exam month again, Grrrrr.......
Dat's just so me,
seeing me crying over fones n wet my blanket.
Tht's just so me.
I know....everyone will say
"apuuu....exam oni ma! Why r u stressing urself out of it? Steady lar..."
But I just can't take it.
I just can't.
So dun force me k.

Well, our first disagreement has just fell on today.
As agreed, we wont be meeting up until afta my exams.
But him, desperately, found himself a reason to insist on meetin up today afta his class.
But as for me, being naive thinks dat we'll be heading home right afta dinner but then this was not even in his list.
Afta assuring the actual thing before goin on wit the meet up,
both of us, not being in the correct mood, actually behaved unusually.

Of cos, we didnt get to meet up today,
u noe, my exam is near dddd,
AND,
I'm hanging a du-lan face on me,
cracking my head for my comm. skills coursework summore.
So, it's not a gud time for lovey-doveying.

*******

Well, guys will owes be guys.
No matter how unsatisfied they're with ur ans,
they'll just say
"nah...it's ok lar, js carry on wit wut u're duin ya, no worries for me here"
in a super-calm tone summore.
Not like women, when they say dis sentence, I'm sure it's owes in a more different tone.
Definitely not the usual ones.
Eventhough he tried to assure me tht nothin's goin bad on this, but u noe, u can just feel how much of the disappointment he's,
from the tone he speaks to you.
That really melts my heart.

But what to do....
I seriously can't do this by now,
but for sure, u'll have more of my love when I'm back on my usual mode ya!

Honestly speaking, I was being a lil immatured also when I got on my nerves n almost wanted to yell at him.
But I can say, if i were to do tht,
I'll be the dummbest gal ever in the history.
As for him, will be listed as the most innocent dude ever to be yelled at,
for not knowing the reason.
We're just too new to each other n yeah, still not knowing how we can actaully handle each other's temper.
Nvm....I'm sure I can figure out a way and get over this.

Hmmm.....boy, u just go to wait for another 7 more days.
Be patient ya.
I'm counting on days, 4 more days to Exam, 5 days to coursework due date, 7 days to you! Muahks!
Not forgetting, 9 more days to HOME!
and lastly, and the most important one, 15 more days to them!! My super duper lovely grandparents n my dearest uncle,
to be air-flown back to Miri, Sarawak all the way from Vancouver, Ca.
I love you all!

arrghh....too much thing to do now.
Nvm nvm.....cos It's more than enough when I have you with me!
btw, like i mentioned above, that im actually taking a break from all this rite, but the reason of me bloggin again 2nite, breakin my own vow, was because i miss him too much n with a lil of du-lan feeling in me tht nits to be expressed out.
And so it was.....hehehe
So afta this post, U, just got to wait for 7 days oso ya, just like my love.
Hahaha!!
Bear wit it ya, my dear!

Alrite, I shall continue on wit my coursework now.
Everyone, pls pray for me ya!
Thanks a lot!

Signin off,
Carrie the KPQueen =)

Rou's 20th B'day!

Hey thr!
Greetings to all!
Yeah...It's oni 7.02am now but I'm already very energetic!

Getting ready to rob the nasi lemak stall down thr....

Nasi Lemak Biasa + Paha = Rm3.00
P/S : sygg.....tiada teh tarik

That's my breakfast....so MALAYSIAN rite?
Yes, Im'm a MALAYSIAN wutttt.....n so it's!
Bear with it....(:

Of course, there's a reason of me waking up at such early hour.
Yes.....I've a presentation to do today
n yes I have classes today.
But they aren't my main concern cos there are just so DEAD!

DEAD + ROUTINE = LAME

TEH TARIK + NASI LEMAK = OHMMM KAO KAO!

WELL,....tht's my equation.

okok, too much of loso-ing.
YEAH! IT'S 3rd of April todayyyyy....
Guess wut?! It's my ji mui's 20th bday!

Which Ji Mui of mine?

Nehhhh....tht gal lorr.....frm JB....
the 1 bahhhh frm 101 unit....
the super mega sot+38+kaypoh+siao ca bo = ANG LI JOE
the 1 selling Swatch watches in China town, Swiss now....
Remember her ka??
In case u can't recall her leng lui face, I'll show u, my dear.

*the suku face of hers 2 yrs ago*

*the mega sot + excited + blurry face of hers last year when we surprised her.
*We miss you*
P/s : Look at her face, really certified sot kan...haha!!

*this year, eventhough we're unable to celebrate with u, to surprise u or anythin but our hearts are always locked together. Frenship tht lasts.*

Rou is just too far away from us now.
But then, thank God tht he created such smart person n invented this thing called
"telephone".
With it, we actually get connected to everyone....
.....BUT....
due to some technical problems, we didn't get to connect to her n yell a
"HAPPY BIRTDAY"
wish o song o sumthin....
So what we can do is leave her msgs in whrever we can find her.

Sad rite?

Yes....we feel kinda sad tho cos didn't get to accomplish our mission.

We woke up at 6am (M'sia Time), Swiss Time = 12:00am.
With super energetic mind + soul,
ready to yell n scream n shout over the phone;
all the way from Malaysia to Swiss.

BUT WE FAILED TO DO SO.......
Grrrrrrrrrrrrggrgrgrggrrgr....!!
kanasaicilakawthwtfknnomggknsclkknsknsknsnssss

No matter how much it takes,
remember, we still love you, our dear sis, Rou!
Always n forevermore!
Alrite, I shall sing you a bday song now..
So sit back + relax n enjoyyyy
*Clears throats...ahem.ahemm...*

Happy Birthday to you,
happy birthday to you,
happy birthday to rou rou,
happy birthday to youu...

May you be blessed with many graces n love n peace.
we love you.
Take care.
Muahkzz....

Signing off,
Carrie the KPQueen =)

Jo's 21st B'day!

Heyo! Here comes my 2nd post!

Yeah, 20.03.2009 was Jo's 21st Bday!
Man.....It's her 21st, like wut Kak Rose told us, "Waaaaa.....sudah dptkan kunci kebebasan lar tu!
Lol, Kebebasan kao kao I can say. It's like U're entering a different stage of ur life and turning to a real adult!

No, no, I didn't say she can sleep around.
But she can enter a casino now! hahaahaha....
But We aren't any kaki judi pun so tak syok larrr.....
But We'll enter one .....in the near future!
p/s: Do remind us to put on our super-sexy-hot-RED lingeries yea!
No,no, not to get attention but to wang to the maxx ma....come on la, chinese wut, must wear ang to wang ma, else how to tiok kan? So it's a MUST!
=)

Guess wut?
We,
the 3 kaypoh +38+ loud+ hamsap

gals bought her a HUGE Luggage Bag...hehehe...so thoughtful of us kan?
Btw, we used to have 5 of us in our gals gang but one of us has left for Swiss, selling Swatch watches in Chinatown now. So left the 4 of us here, but very soon, 2 of us will be leaving n da other 2 will stay on till the end of time.

U know wut? Jo was so super kind and treated us for a movie and our favorite vocal exercise....
at whr?
Kotak Merah @ the Curve and Cineleisure lorrrrrrrr.....mann..we really sang like super stars one lorr...
no out of tune, no screaming over microphones, only serious singing n off to the peak n switched to super on mode.
Pretty gud rite? =)

Okayyy, Let's talk bout the movie we watched...
We watched TAKEN last nite...
man...u really gonna watch it one day!
Seriously, the father's role was even Better than a super hero...lam dou bao lorr
U sure will fall in love wit him afta watching it.
So MAN lar himmmm

So ON oso....so gud oso...so yeng oso...
lol...too hot to handle lar!
Better watch it, I tell you, else u sure will regret !


okayyy okayyy...I know I'm a lil too far now, I shall get back to the topic.


Activities of the nite :

1. Super ON K session
2. Sticker photo cam-whoring session
3. An action-packed movie
4. Cake cutting
   
5. Kaypoh chi-s sharing the latest n hottest gossips
6. Pillow talk till 3am! woohoooo~~!

As mentioned, cam-whoring session wuttt....confirm gt a lot of pics taken larrr!
N of cos I'll never hesitate to post them up, but it takes a lil time tho. So I may just show sum here and the rest U can owes check them out in my Facebook ya...Luv U kao kao!
*Click on the link n it'll lead u there.

*Do enjoy the pics below....

The ugly flowers ruined the yummylicious cake!

*This is what we got for her...hehe...so thoughtful of us kan...
=)

Ohhh...I nearly forgotten to mention the carelessness Ian had last nite...poor him, need to clean up his own mess.
* Poor Ian, depressingly and innocently looking at his drop-out PMS.

*Poor Ian, depressingly and innocently cleaning up his PMS....
P/s to Ian: Next time aah...adjust ur pad properly ya, to prevent this to happen again! LOL!! =)
okayy, i think i shall stop here again, not so rajin 2 talk so much tonite.....
hehehe.....
So do stay tune for my next post k...
Love ya!

i do miss you..i miss you.....hug hug...


Signing off,
Carrie the KPQueen =)